易中天
湖南長沙人，中國知名作家、學者、教育家。先後任教於武漢大學、廈門大學。易中天長期從事文學、藝術、美學、心理學、人類學、歷史學等研究，著有《〈文心雕龍〉美學思想論稿》、《藝術人類學》等著作。2005年央視《百家講壇》「開壇論道」的學者。2006年在央視「百家講壇」主講《漢代風雲人物》、《易中天品三國》，2008年主講《先秦諸子百家爭鳴》，引起全民通俗歷史熱潮。
2013年宣布寫作36卷《易中天中華史》，榮獲第八屆作家富豪榜最佳歷史書。現居江南某鎮，潛心寫作。
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閒話中國人：談到中國人的事，實在是麻煩得很 (中國知名作家、學者、教育家 易中天)200520062008 201336
作者：易中天
這本書是講中國人的。
中國人的事最不好講。
一本「破譯」並「解密」中國人群象的解答之書，
從尋常之中，揭示中國文化最核心、最深層的秘密。
講到中國人的事，為什麼總是特別麻煩？
講了中國人那麼久，你真的了解中國人嗎？
人之謎，就是文化之謎。中國人之謎，當然就是中國文化之謎。
本書從中國歷史、詩詞、小說、人情世故、社會價值觀下手，發現一些大眾習焉而不察的習慣或習性，其實都有本有源，易中天引經據典，化繁為簡，撥清思路，一步步的帶領讀者走進一個趣味幽遠的中國人的世界。
在書中，特別拈出中國最具代表性的九種文化現象來進行討論：
■飲食──革命不是請客，就是吃飯
中國人見面，開口第一句就是問吃飯的事。會不會吃、懂不懂吃、善不善於處理飲食問題，就關係到會不會做人、會不會做官、會不會打仗，甚至能不能得天下。
■服飾──變通以趨時，不為天下先
超前有風險，落伍遭恥笑，因此中國人處理時尚問題，有條古訓叫「變通以趨時」──時代變了，服飾也要跟著變，否則就是不合時宜。而只要做足「表面工夫」，就不至於被追究。
■面子──先顧全面子，再顧好裡子
面子幾乎主宰著中國人的一切。人際關係，要靠面子來處理和維繫；社會生活，也要靠面子來決定和操作。丟了面子，就是「沒臉見人」，有時會比喪失性命還要可怕，所以也才會產生「死要面子」的現象。
■人情──不是不報，時機未到
人情的基本法則是「回報」。然而，中國人的所謂「人情」，是一種說不清的東西，它是情感，又不純粹是情感。人情「還，還是不還」，對於許多中國人，也都是個問題。
■單位──「安身」「立命」之所
對於中國人來說，單位是極其重要的。如果兩個陌生人見面，多半會問「你是哪個單位的」。在大街上騎車闖了禍，或者到機關衙門裡去辦事，警察和門衛都會問這句話。單位，差不多可以說是中國人生存的依據。
■家庭──內外有別，親疏有差
中國傳統社會是「家本位」，或者說「家為國之本」。家庭的特點，就是「公私不分，內外有別」。當家庭成為國家和社會組織的「普遍性模式」，這兩個基本原則也就確立起來了。
■婚戀──盡義務，結親緣，繼血緣
在大多數中國人看來，「男大當婚，女大當嫁」，於是婚嫁一事就從「個人權利」變成了「社會義務」，也就「人人有責」，每個人都有資格來關心、來過問，來插上一腳了。
■友誼──肥水不落外人田，資源共享
交朋友，要講「交情」。而中國人友誼的又一個特點，就是任何人的結交，都有一定的「圈子」。君子之交是一種圈子，小人之交也是一種圈子，雖然儒家的社會理想是「四海之內皆兄弟也」，但沒有一定圈子的交往，事實上並不存在。
■閒話──好事不出門，壞事傳千里
中國人愛說閒話。但「閒話」其實不「閒」，在現實和歷史中常被拿來當成鬥爭的武器，造就了許多「閒話陰謀家」的存在。
這九種文化現象，有的是中國獨有的，如人情、面子；有的雖非中國獨有，卻頗具「中國特色」，如飲食、家庭。現象雖有九種，但「九九歸一」，目的卻只有一個，即要揭示出中國文化最核心最深層的秘密。
易中天是一位社會學者，多年來研究中國文化，他筆下的「閒話」其實「不閒」，其實是一位資深社會觀察家的觀察筆記。
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Great toy for a smaller dog
Color: Checkers - Dinos Bruto (Purple), Size: Mini
This is a small, firm, sturdy toy designed for chewing. It isn't a soft toy and it does not have a squeaker. My dog is only 8 lbs, and this is a perfect size for her. I discovered these smaller toys through my groomer. Other manufacturers make this size, as well. The "hard chew" part indicates that this toy will not be chewed to death easily. The oldest one that we have is still in good condition. It's a baby duck (also available on Amazon) and it's over a year old. The dinosaur is colorful, easy to throw, and a really cute. Every night, my dog gives these small toys a bath, cleaning them up by licking each one before going to sleep. It's as if they are her babies. Since she never had a liter, my vet said that they are about the size that her babies would have been, so she may see them as her babies. She treats them well. Every now and then they go" swimming" in the washing machine and come out looking bright and new again.
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Reviewed in the United States on January 2, 2026
★★★★★ 4
Updated, still going !! didn't last two minutes.
Color: Checkers - Elephant (Gray), Size: Large, Color: Checkers - Elephant (Gray), Size: Large
I hated giving this a 1 star, because it was so cute when I unpacked it today. I just gave it to my dog and in less than two minutes he has a hole ripped in it.! he loves it so I don't wanna take it away from him, but I'm sure it's going to be gone in another few minutes. Why can't someone make a stuffed animal for a dog that lasts like they say so on their listing? I really should take it away from him and send it back, but I don't have the heart.
I had to come back and give this a better review. it deserves at least four stars because even though he ripped holes in it, this one has lasted way longer than any other toy. He's actually still playing with it, and it still has some crinkle left to it so he didn't destroy the whole thing as quickly as he did other stuffed animals. I will certainly buy another one because at least it lasted a week so far!
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Reviewed in the United States on January 6, 2026
★★★★★ 3
Looks Nice But Destroyed by my Lab
Color: Checkers - Elephant (Gray), Size: Large, Color: Checkers - Elephant (Gray), Size: Large
A really cute little elephant. My lab loved it and carried it around for a week. Then the elephant began losing body parts. Both legs are gone now plus the big squeaker. Lab still likes the elephant and carries it around. Its loosing stuffing and the real question is what body part is next. Its nice but not tough.
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Reviewed in the United States on February 26, 2026
★★★★★ 5
Nice toy for Chewers!
Was chewed in a day or so, but she loved it.
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Reviewed in the United States on May 13, 2026
★★★★★ 5
Still in one piece and played with!
Color: Checkers - Dinos Bruto (Purple), Size: Mini
Very durable for my little King Charles Chewer. She's had it for a while now and all though the chewing phase has calmed down, she still can be somewhat rough with the toys. The little dino is standing firm. It was a battle she figured she couldn't win with Dino. Now he's a fetch/ tug o war toy that still gets a few nibbles.
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Reviewed in the United States on June 10, 2026
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